I’ve been thinking, a lot… maybe a bit too much. But the point is, what do you want to do in life? Is it singing? dancing? Maybe both! Of course, it doesn’t have to really fall into the category of Fine Arts, of course you can be a lawyer,doctor, or even a astronaut. If you want to do something, then do it!
That is the thing that has been getting to me recently, is doing what you want, at least knowing what you want to do. I am really a very indecisive person when it comes to things.. ” things” meaning everything from which coffee drink to get, what to wear to the gym (THE GYM), what earrings to wear, to what I have for dinner. The worst part of all of this is that I’ve really become indecisive about the important aspects of life, like what I want to do with my life, where I want to live, to , if I should move into an apartment or not.
Making decisions or choosing what coffee to get in the morning shouldn’t be this difficult.. but these everyday choices are. So how can we change that? More importantly how can I change this… I’ve come up with a plan! (oh great, I know thats what your thinking) So, lets see if (we) I can do this!
Make A Weekly Chart
There! I said it! Don’t plan your life away because there is no room for surprises! Try planning out your week, Monday: work, gym, 50 shades of grey… and so on. Just see how it works, even if its minor things like, 30 minute walk outside with pup! Then do it, just try to organize and revamp your life by starting with a weekly chart!
List 3 Goals You Want To Complete Each Week
Now this, you cannot disagree with. It is a FANTASTIC idea and you know it! My goals are all over the board, I honestly want to complete more things then I have time for, I’m sure you do too. That is why making a list of 3 things you want to complete a week, is a great idea! Starting off I think I should list some things, my 3 this week are: Finish my book, squat at least 20lbs more (100lbs!), and take my pup for more walks when at home! See, it isn’t too difficult! Do it!
Make A Bubble Chart Of Your Future
My Mother has taught me a gazillion things, one of which is to draw out your options. Its seriously one of the best ideas ever, if your ever in doubt get a piece of paper and a bunch of colored pens or pencils, sit yourself down and make a huge bubble circle in the middle of the page and write your name. Then make a line to another bubble of your options in life. Kinda like this, except with bubbles and colors!
SOPHIA (big bubble) —-(smaller bubble)Carrer——office setting—- love to write—— love to draw
SOPHIA( still big bubble)——(smaller bubble) Career——- hospital setting- love helping others—- creative brains—— love babies—- ultrasound tech
^^See, while your goals are probably completely different you get the idea of what I am trying to do here.. right?
Don’t Be Such A Self-Bully
So you don’t know what you want to do in life, your stuck or you just want to draw out your options! That is fine. Just remember to not bully yourself because you can’t make a rational decision on the spot. Everyone is different and in the end we all make mistakes, but don’t rush yourself into something you don’t want to do or rush into making a stupid choice. Give yourself a break (just not a lazy-break) , just enough to let your mind create a peace with what you want in life. You only live once, but that doesn’t mean you have to decide everything before tomorrow.